Thinking yourself out of a severe illness? Are you kidding? So why do we constantly think that we should be able to? Where did that idea ever come from and why do we all think like that when it comes to depression?
… and the list goes on. The problem occurs when these underlying issues are never addressed. And what happens within you when issues are not addressed? Anxiety, frustration and ultimately anger.
The bottom line is that a parent is responsible for the debt of a minor. If your teenager had a credit card at this moment, would you be willing to drop them off at the mall with their card? If not, perhaps parental training before they reach 18 is in order. If after the youth is 18 there is still parental influence, I recommend a limited credit of $500 with an annual increase of $500 if the proceeding year has demonstrated responsible handling of the card.
With all that we go through on a daily basis, it is very easy to allow our relationships to fall to the wayside. Even the simple routines of life work to take out focus off of what is really important.
After a bit they throw in the towel on that and refer you to a debt repo agency. Now the debt collection agency would like you to pay completely and in certain countries if you aren’t able to pay they’re going to go legal and get a bailiff to turn up at your home and demand payment. If you still can not pay, they can get a court order to enter your house and take away any products they can get their hands on to settle the debt.
Credit Anthony Robbins might be an option, but do your homework. The recession has been a boom business for cowboy debt counsellors who want nothing less than to take money off you and make your debt situation much worse. Check with officially licensed and reputable counsellors.
The gambler lies to family and friends – and sometimes even to himself -about the amount being gambled in order to hide his dependency. At the same time, he brags and exaggerates the size of winnings. When confronted, he denies having a problem at all, and he becomes angry if the subject is pursued. The lies become a way of life. He withdraws from family and friends, and even lies about his whereabouts while gambling.
Now of course there are other fears that people have as well but these are our mean fears. I now would like to go into 1 of these fears and explain how it is guiding “faulty” behaviours in relationships and causing break-downs in communication and ultimately anger, but that’s another article.